Concerns about breastfeeding impact time baby is breastfed

New moms intent on breastfeeding have a lot on their plate.  Breastfeeding is exhausting, emotionally and physically.  Add in pumping, issues of over or under supply or "just" the mountain of challenges that you can face as a new breastfeeding mom and you can see why moms can get overwhelmed.  A new study (10.13) by the journal Pediatrics looks at the relationship between mom's breastfeeding worries impacts how long she breastfeeds the baby.

The study concluded that new mom concerns about breastfeeding directly affected the length of time that mom breastfed.  Makes sense, right?  If you're worried about something that you're doing, you may be less inclined to continue doing it as time goes on.  The predominant new mom concerns are the usual suspects:

A post-partum doula always looks at position of baby's body, his body language & "attitude" and mom's breast to troubleshoot any challenges.  What do you notice about those things in this picture?

1. difficulty with baby feeding at the breast (this can include latch, tongue tie, oral aversion issues, etc.);
2. pain (breastfeeding should never hurt but it often does, especially when we're trying to figure out "how" to do it in the early days);
3. quantity concerns (is baby getting enough to eat?)

These concerns are normal but still scary for the new mom. If breastfeeding is an important piece of the fourth trimester for you and your family, you might consider hiring a post-partum doula.  The concerns above are issues that are addressed by a post-partum doula*.  [Note: these concerns can also be addressed by a lactation consultant.  Lactation consultants specialize in breastfeeding. ] A post-partum doula is a generalist who does three things for her clients: offer evidence-based information, hands-on help and unconditional support. So one takeaway of the article is the importance of hiring an experienced post-partum doula to help with breastfeeding in the early days.  

The study is available by subscription only (of course!) but you can see the abstract here.  You don't need to read the whole article though to get the recommendations by the study authors on how to close the gap between concerns and duration. 

Product recommendation: Hylands Tiny Cold Tablets

I've recently discovered Hylands Tiny Cold Tablets.  Elisabeth had her first cold and she was a mess: runny nose, sneezing, sniffling.  Hylands makes homeopathic products for babies to adults.  Even now at sixteen months, Elisabeth can't take "traditional" medicine for her cold so when I found out about Tiny Cold Tablets, I was thrilled.  I've been a fan of Hylands ever since we tried their teething tablets when Elisabeth was six months.  

Colds in toddlers, especially Elisabeth's age, are so frustrating.  They don't understand about breathing through their mouth.  They don't know how to blow their nose.  And they get angry when they try to nurse and have to stop after a few seconds because they can't breathe.  Frustrating and upsetting for them and just as bad (so it seems!) to anxious parents who might not have seen their wee one sick yet.

Enter Tiny Cold Tablets! It seems that the trick with homeopathic "meds" is to take them often and that's what is directed for the Tiny Cold Tablets.  So that can be a bit of a pain but the result is really worth it.  Elisabeth's runny nose stopped running away and sniffling and sneezing definitely abated.  We started with taking 3 tablets every 15 minutes for four doses and then one per hour.  I tried to give the dose every hour at the same time.  Sometimes I forgot and then just re-started.  No problem.

One of the best parts?  Tiny Cold Tablets are truly tiny!  They dissolve within seconds so no choking or gagging on a big nasty pill that is hard to swallow.  No swallow even necessary.   And by this point, Elisabeth picks them out of my hand and takes them herself.  Easy!  ---->

So, if your wee one (6 months and up) is suffering from a cold, check out Hylands Tiny Cold Tablets.  We purchased ours at Target but according to the website, they are pretty widely available.  Let me know how they work for you by leaving a comment below.